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Stress & Calm

Nothing in this section is a treatment and nothing in it is a practice with a capital letter. These are short, ordinary tools: a minute of counted breathing on a stair landing, three sentences in a notebook, a laptop lid closed at a particular hour, and a ten second check on the shoulders and the jaw.

Entries in this section

Stress and Calm, newest first

Every entry carries the date it was written. The dates are the only figures on this site that we ask anybody to take on trust, and they are the reason the order below is worth reading in either direction.

13/08/2026

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Stress & Calm

Noticing Where Stress Sits in the Body

Held tension stops being noticeable long before it stops being present. Shoulders raised at ten in the morning are simply where the shoulders are by noon. The habit is a short, repeated check rather than a relaxation exercise.

01/08/2026

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Stress & Calm

Setting Boundaries With Your Own Evening

An evening spent half working is neither restful nor productive, and afterwards nobody can say which it was. Deciding to stop at seven does nothing. Closing a lid, pushing a chair in and moving a bag does quite a lot.

12/07/2026

A small hardback notebook open on a side table under a warm lamp, a few lines of handwriting on the page and a pen across it
Stress & Calm

What Five Minutes of Journaling a Day Can Do

The word journaling does the habit no favours. Three sentences, written standing up in a kitchen, taking about as long as boiling a kettle: what took up the day, what is still open, and one thing that was fine.

24/06/2026

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Stress & Calm

Box Breathing for Busy, Overwhelming Moments

Four counts in, four held, four out, four held. The numbers are not the point. Half of what this does is the breathing and the other half is having something specific and boring to do with the minute before something difficult.

WHERE THIS SECTION LEADS

The habits in Stress and Calm run into two neighbours more often than into any others. The first is Sleep and Rest, where the question of the evening is taken up from the other side, and the second is Home and Environment, which handles the the room end of the same subject. Readers who prefer to follow the dates rather than the sections can do that from the front page, where every entry is listed in the order it was written.